Let me be clear about something right awayâyour teen doesnât need to win a national award or cure a disease for their extracurricular activities to matter on a college application.
What do they need? To show up, follow through, and reflect on what theyâve learned along the way. Thatâs where YOU come in.
Iâve worked with thousands of high school students over the years, and I can confidently say this: the most overlooked part of the college application is the activity listâand itâs where families miss a huge opportunity to stand out.
Hereâs why extracurriculars matter more than you think.
When colleges review applications, they arenât just looking at grades and test scores. They want to know what k...
Iâm not here to bash school counselors. Theyâre doing important work under tough conditions. But as a parent, you deserve to know what your teen should be receiving from their school counselor this spring.
And if you're not getting it, itâs okay to ask for more.
Hereâs what I want you to look forâespecially if you have an 11th grader.
Itâs April. That means decisions need to be made, and actions need to be taken.
You should have a clear timeline from your school:
Ask yourself:
Have you se...
I talk to parents every day who want whatâs best for their kids. You want security. Stability. A solid career.
So what do we tell them?
Go pre-med. Get into business. Study engineering. Learn computer science.
But here's the truth:
Those majors aren't the right fit for every student. And pushing them into one âjust to be safeâ can backfire.
I've seen it happen.
A student applies to a top college for computer science. Strong GPA. Good extracurriculars. Rejected.
Another student applies for psychology or environmental studies at the same school. Accepted.
Same GPA. Similar background. But the choice of major made a huge difference.
Why? Because some majors are way more competitive.
The 4 Majors ...
The cost of college is skyrocketing. The admissions process is a maze. And parents like you are being left to figure it all out on your own.
Itâs frustrating, stressful, and unfair. But hereâs the truth: You donât have to do this alone.
If youâve been paying attention, you know that major changes are happening in higher education. Federal policies are shifting, financial aid programs are in jeopardy, and colleges are making admissions decisions in ways that feel unpredictable.
Here are some key challenges families are facing right now:
Soaring Tuition Costs: Many private colleges now cost over $75,000 per year. Even public universities are becoming more e...
The college admissions process can be a rollercoaster, and if your teen has been placed on a waitlist, youâre likely feeling a mix of frustration and uncertainty. But hereâs the truth: A waitlist decision is not a rejection. Itâs an opportunity.
Colleges use waitlists to manage their enrollment numbers. They admit a certain number of students but know that not all will accept their offer. A waitlist allows them to fill any gaps left by students who decide to go elsewhere. So while itâs not an immediate âyes,â itâs also not a definitive âno.â Your teen still has a chanceâbut only if they take the right steps.
Colleges wonât assume your teen wants to ...
The college admissions process is filled with stress, uncertainty, and endless information. Parents and students alike often feel overwhelmed by the sheer number of tasks they must completeâresearching schools, writing essays, securing recommendations, and strategizing for success. Itâs easy to get lost in the chaos.
But what if there was a way to simplify it all? What if, instead of more stress, you could focus on just four key elements that actually matter? Weâve created a simple yet powerful framework: L.E.S.S.âList, Essay, Story, and Strategy. By focusing on these essentials, you can help your teen not only survive the process but thrive in it.
Want Your Teen to Stand Out? You Need a Story and a Strategy.Â
Welcome to the College Application Action Plan (CAAP)!
Letâs be realâcollege admissions is wild right now. Acceptance rates are plummeting, competition is fierce, and schools are looking for students who donât just check boxes but stand out in meaningful ways. The problem? Most students (and parents) donât know how to tell that story effectively.Â
Thatâs why I created the College Application Action Plan (CAAP)âa program designed to help families cut through the noise, get strategic, and make sure their teen stands out.
For $47/month, families gain access to expert advice, structured guidance, and real-world strategies that turn the chaot...
Course selection isn't just about picking classes that look interesting or fit neatly into your teenâs schedule. Itâs a strategic decision that can directly impact their college admissions outcomes. The classes your teen takes in their junior and senior years carry the most weightâcolleges want to see students who challenge themselves while maintaining strong grades.
If your teen is heading into their senior year, their course choices are even more critical. Admissions officers start by reviewing senior year courses first, then junior year grades, and work their way backward. That means your teenâs upcoming schedule needs to reflect both academic rigor and balance.
Your teenâs school counselor is one of the most important people in their college admissions journey. But letâs be honestâhow well do you actually understand their role? Many parents assume counselors will handle everything from building a college list to reviewing essays to crafting a strategy for admissions success. But the reality? Thatâs not always the case.
School counselors are hardworking professionals with the best intentions, but theyâre often stretched thin. In many schools, each counselor is responsible for hundreds of students, making it nearly impossible to provide the individualized attention your teen needs to stand out in the competitive college admissions process.
Every year, I spe...