If you’ve been paying attention to college trends lately, you might have noticed a surge of interest in Southern schools, especially large public universities in the Southeast. Think University of Texas, University of Georgia, University of Florida, Clemson, and University of South Carolina.
You’ve probably heard it in passing, maybe in the Wall Street Journal, about kids saying “move over Harvard, the South is the new thing.” And honestly, I get it. The weather, the vibe, the energy. It is magnetic. But here’s the thing: popularity alone shouldn’t be the reason your teen applies to a school.
I want to unpack why these schools are so appealing, what parents need to know, and how you can help your child make smart choices, beyond the tailgates and football games.
You know that moment when you watch a big college football game on TV and see the crowd, the marching band, the excitement. That sense of belonging is powerful, especially to a 16, 17, or 18-year-old.
Here’s what draws kids in:
π Football culture and campus energy
π Mild weather and outdoor lifestyle
π Active social life with student organizations
π Vibrant community and camaraderie
Even if your teen isn’t a huge sports fan, the cultural energy can feel irresistible. It is part of the experience and it is part of why Southern schools are seeing more applications from out-of-state students.
Here’s where we get real. Popularity and culture are enticing, but parents need to step in with the four pillars of the college search:
π Cost – Tuition, living expenses, financial aid options
π Location – Proximity to home, climate, lifestyle
π Major – Does the school offer strong programs in your teen’s intended field
π Career outcomes – What happens after graduation, networking opportunities, alumni success
Think about it this way. Your teen may be enamored with Friday night football. That is great. But if the academic fit isn’t there, or the program they want is weak, they could struggle or leave after a year. We want kids excited about the culture and confident in their academic path.
It is easy for students to send applications to schools that “look cool.” I get it. The Instagram posts, the tailgate videos, the hype. It is tempting. But we need to encourage critical thinking:
π Why do you want to go here
π What will you study and why
π‘ What extracurricular or out-of-class experiences matter to you
π How does this choice fit long-term goals
Parents, this is the moment to have those conversations. Ask your teen, “Is this school about the vibe or about your long-term goals?” We want them to feel excited and intentional about their choices.
Southern state schools can be tricky. In-state tuition may be affordable, but out-of-state tuition can be high and these schools will happily take your money if you can pay it.
π Admissions aren’t necessarily easy – Popularity means more competition
π Out-of-state slots are limited and harder to get
π Financial planning – Parents should weigh tuition, scholarships, and living costs carefully
It is about being informed and intentional. Popular doesn’t always mean easy or affordable.
Southern schools are appealing for lots of reasons: weather, football culture, vibrant campus life. But parents need to help their teens see the bigger picture: academics, fit, cost, and career outcomes.
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Encourage exploration geographically, but stay anchored to purpose
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Ask questions about academic fit and career goals
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Talk about finances, location, and lifestyle
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Help your teen understand why they want the school, not just because it is popular
When parents partner with their teens like this, students make smarter choices, feel confident, and land in the right environment for both growth and enjoyment.
Strategic Admissions Advice can help families evaluate schools across the country, whether north, south, west, or midwest. Tools like College List Builder ensure your teen applies to schools for the right reasons, not just the hype.
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