How to Get on the Same Page with Your Teen About College

Today, I want to have a conversation with you that is extra special and crucially important. As parents, we all want the best for our kids, and one of the key decisions they'll make is about their college education. In order to guide them effectively, we need to get on the same page with them and have real conversations about college to ensure we make informed choices together.

College is a big decision, and it's important for parents and teens to be on the same page about what they want out of the college experience. This blog post will provide you with some tips on how to have these important conversations with your teen.

Why is it important to be on the same page?

There are a few reasons why it's important for parents and teens to be on the same page about college. First, it will help to ensure that your teen is making a decision that is right for them. Second, it will help to avoid any surprises down the road, such as financial difficulties or a lack of fit between the college and your teen's interests. Finally, it will help to create a more positive and supportive college search process.

The first step is to start the conversation. This can be a daunting task, but it's important to remember that you're not alone. There are a number of resources available to help you get started.

The first is the College Board website. The College Board has a number of resources on its website, including a college planning checklist and a college search guide.

Once you've started the conversation, it's important to be open and honest with each other. This means listening to your teen's concerns and sharing your own thoughts and feelings. It also means being willing to compromise.

There are a number of things that you should discuss with your teen when it comes to college. 

The Four Key Pillars: cost, location, major, and career.

Cost: Understanding the financial implications of college is crucial. By discussing budget limitations and exploring financial aid options, we can help our teens make informed decisions that align with our financial capabilities.

Location: Consider the pros and cons of various locations. Discuss factors like proximity to home, climate, cultural diversity, and potential career opportunities in different regions. Encourage your teen to weigh their preferences against practical considerations.

Major: Help your teen identify their interests, strengths, and potential career paths. Research different majors and their job prospects to ensure they choose a field that aligns with their passions and offers promising opportunities.

Career: Discuss the long-term goals your teen has for their career. Help them explore different professions, connect with professionals in their desired fields, and understand the potential salary and job prospects associated with their chosen path.

If you need help starting the conversation, I encourage you to schedule a free Discovery Call with a Strategic Admissions Advice Advisor and, ultimately, a Strategy Session with me. During the call, we'll discuss your teen's needs and goals, and I'll share some tips on how to have these important conversations.

To schedule a call, simply click here. Looking forward to hearing from you!